We are given many instructions on what is expected of a leader in the church by Paul in his letters to Timothy and Titus and by Peter in his first letter, but none clearer than the words of Jesus in Mark 10. “For the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve …” It is no small responsibility to be a leader in the church, one that should not be taken lightly, and I have no doubt any who abuse that responsibility will one day be held accountable, but do you see the drastic difference of being a leader in the church as to being a leader in the world? Church leaders are to serve, not be served, to be humble, not lord it over people, not given to wine, not violent, not greedy for money! If Congress was run like that we wouldn’t have to worry about career politicians! Actually there might not be any politicians at all! There is a high standard to be a leader in the church, but isn’t that the same standard the whole church is called to be? Shouldn’t the church be full of people able to step up to be an elder or deacon if asked? People who aren’t perfect but are trying to be like Jesus. Are you ready? If not, why? “God resists the proud but gives grace to the humble.” It’s the humble in spirit, the servants, He wants to lead. Whether as a leader or not, He wants to use you!
There are two sides to every issue. At least two teams in every contest, many candidates for only one job position, only one person may be president. There may be many prayers made but there is still only going to be one winner, one new employee, one new leader. A sobering thought but even God can’t please everyone! So if He can’t please everyone, why do you think you should? Man’s approval is temporary, the world’s glitz and glitter is temporary. What society deems significant will be replaced by the next popular psycho babble to come along. God’s approval is eternal, what’s important to Him never changes, pleasing God is what matters! The only reason we should seek men’s approval is so they would see something different in us, a kindness and caring the world rarely shows, that we may have an opportunity to share the Lord with them, and because of that difference they see, they would take what we say to heart. In all things, it is right to do what is pleasing to the Lord and seek His approval. People may find it strange that you choose not to run in certain circles, but they aren’t who you’re trying to please. God made you who you are. Use the gifts and personality He gave you to honor and please Him. Don’t look for approving words from men, but look forward to hearing the greatest words of approval you could ever hear. “Well done My good and faithful servant.”
James has always been one of my favorite books. He just lays it out there, no matter how hard it lands. “For where envy and self-seeking exist, confusion and every evil thing will be there.” So every evil thing gets invited to the envy parties? Think I’ll burn my invitation ASAP! Needless to say, envy/coveting is not something God wants to see in His children. Here’s a good litmus test to see if there is any envy lurking within you. When you see or hear about God abundantly blessing someone, can you honestly and happily rejoice with and for them? Even if they are being blessed and you’re not? Even if they are being blessed with something you were praying for? While we may feel a slight twinge, we should readily rejoice with them and thank God for their answered prayer. He knows what He is doing, and He knows better than we do what we need and when we need it! Don’t worry about what others have or are given, make the most of what you have. Don’t worry about what talents others have, worry about using your talents to the best of your ability, and you do have talents. You’re only responsible for using what you have, not what you don’t have. We are all blessed in different ways, be thankful for the blessings you’ve been given. To make the case against envy simple, remember, anything and everything any of us have is a gift from God that none of us deserve, salvation being the top of the list! Keep that in mind and continually say, thank You Father, thank You Jesus, and envy no more!
Time magazine came out with their 100 most significant people of all time and who do you think was number one? Jesus! That seals it, if Time said it, it must be true, and it is, not because Time said it, but because He is! Think about it. Here was a man who for the three years of His ministry was basically homeless, was never elected to or held any type of leadership office, was despised and defamed by both the political and religious leaders of His day until they finally brutally put Him to death, and He mostly hung around with what was considered the dregs of society. Yet a worldly, sophisticated, influential magazine calls Him the most significant figure in history! Guess they were listening when God said at His baptism, “This is My beloved Son in whom I am well pleased,” and later when He reiterated those words on the Mt of Transfiguration and added, “Hear Him!” Thing of it is, it doesn’t matter what Time says, why is Jesus significant to you? Is He your Lord and Savior? Is He significant enough to you that you live your life obeying His commandments, loving and serving others, telling others about Him? You are either all in with Him or you’re not, there is no straddling the picket fence with Jesus! Before your straddling comes to a painful conclusion, get that other foot out of the world and start walking securely on His narrow path. It may be the most significant thing you ever do!
Jesus made many powerful statements but one simple sentence from Matthew 20:28 should affect our whole attitude in our Christian walk. “… the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve …” Jesus, Lord of Lords, King of kings, the Word in the beginning, the Savior of all mankind, didn’t come to be served … but to serve! Let that sink into your head for a minute. Jesus is our example in all things so, how are you doing in following His serving lead? He gave all of us talents to use for Him and others, are you using them? Do you make yourself available to help where and when there is a need? Do you serve gladly or are you resentful for giving up your precious time? Do you only do important tasks because you’re above doing menial ones? (be careful, Jesus washed His disciples feet!) You will never be too important to do mundane things. Being a Christian is all about serving, God first, then one another and others. We are to do what we are able, both physically and mentally, using the gifts we have, not ones we don’t! We should do our best, which doesn’t mean perfectly, but regardless of whom we are serving, we should do it as unto the Lord! Pay attention, be sensitive to the needs of others, listen to what they aren’t saying, be ready to help whenever and whoever, in season and out! Strive to one day hear the words that will echo in your heart forever, “Well done my good and faithful servant.”